Positive Psychology & Self-Compassion

Do you have PERMA? Positive emotion, engagement, relationships, meaning, and achievement, that is. These are all elements that positive psychology deems as what accounts for a “good” life. What is positive psychology? It’s a model that focuses on subjective positive experiences and positive traits. Positive psychology can also be viewed as the counterpart to traditional psychology that uses what we know about what makes us depressed, unmotivated, and anxious to guide us to what makes one experience pleasure, positive thought processes, and fulfillment. So why is positive psychology important? Often the social world which influences us can give us negative images and negative news that can shape our world views and self-perceptions. This can make individuals feel a void of happiness and envision endless perils. Positive psychology can help us to process this information and equip us to form positive solutions and outlooks. Positive psychology garnishes a deeper self-awareness that enables us to develop healthy engagements, connections, and self-compassion. During times of a pandemic and virtual stress, one could utilize positive psychology to practice self-care.

A method one can use to make this happen is gratitude journaling, a process of writing down or inwardly affirming the things that we are grateful for as a daily activity. Gratitude journaling can be a simple thought of the sun rising and being granted a new day. This single thought can structure how you approach your day, ultimately giving you a coping skill to deal with challenges as they arise. With practice, gratitude journaling can get you past those feelings of doom and create space for an “if at first, you don’t succeed, then try again” attitude.
Remember, positive psychology techniques recognize that everyone has a journey, and no step is too small to take to well-being. While you’re taking the time to master online learning tools and the new normal, take the time to consider yourself. At Acacia Collaborative, there are professionals ready to help you reach mental wellbeing and fulfillment. Now, breathe in through your nose, relax your facial muscles, exhale slowly, and state the mantra, “I deserve self-care.” We think you do too. 
About the Author: Shereece Saxton Harley is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker Associate (LCSWA), Qualified Mental Health Professional (QMHP), and MSW who provides assessment and counseling services for individuals from early adolescence through adulthood.